Virginity protects your mind and your emotions from traumatizing experiences. It doesn’t stop an experience from affecting you, but it helps in the way you handle it. It helps your mind “stay above” in a way. When something happened and you don’t know how to process it, being a Virgin or even being celibate can keep your mind on a right thinking pattern. It may not stop you from being negative about a situation but that negativity won’t take over. Virginity protects your emotions by always allowing you to be optimistic. When a situation has hurt you and you feel sad or angry, the feeling will fade quicker into a pure emotion. Unless you are only being intimate with one man, then laying down with many men hurts a woman. You may not realize it right-a-way.
If you have been intimate with many men, it sort of shocks your body and that shock has to release somewhere, so it goes into your mind and into your emotions. Then eventually, you are deeply hurt and have all these negative thoughts about men and the world and your emotions are sporadic and you don’t know why you don’t feel happy. Ultimately, being intimate with a man is an unclean act, it is something that a woman would need to clean herself from afterwards. So it’s the same with your mind and emotions, they need to be cleaned too and they are much harder to clean than your body. Your body will clean out your mind and emotions once you stop or simply keep your virginity.
Hebrews 13:4 ~
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.